quarta-feira, 11 de agosto de 2010

RELATIONSHIPS, why so many problems?






Like everybody knows relationships can be more complicated than you expected, and nowadays things are getting even more complicated. The divorce was inconsiderable some years ago, but today is a common thing. The numbers of people getting divorced raised up 8,7% compared to last year, are the couples fighting more than in the past? Why it’s so hard to get along well if your partner without thinking in divorce?
The freedom of choice brought that possibility to the couples a little time ago, and the first option is this, to separate. Without trying to make things work in their relationship, divorce seems to be the best solution. Of course the right conquered for separation is a good thing, but it made marriage lose a little of its sacred meaning, marriages that could work are breaking up because of silly things as it’s easy to get divorced. One cause for the increase of divorced couples are how we work and stay in work, so we stay less in home and with family, with the kids and the partner, so each time more we stay less with our family and more in work being a cause for a lot of divorces. Another cause is the increase of individuality and impatience which brings to divorce because in marriage we have to worry with our partner and we have to be patience.

The tendence is that more and more couples get divorced as we are being more impatient, more individualist and geting stresed more and more. To have a good relationship we must try to stay more with our family, including kids and do what is possible to be in peace with our partner.

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